The easy way to meet new online sex partners for Skype and Google Hangouts Chats
When it comes to cybersex, webcam models are facing increasing competition from an unlikely source: open minded adults who seek anonymous webcam hookups over Skype and Google Hangouts. And the practice is poised for growth as video chat becomes integrated in everything from televisions to gaming consoles to smartphones and tablets. This shouldn’t come as a surprise. Whenever a new technology becomes mainstream, people are bound to find a way to sexualize its use. This has been the case since the early days of film and can even be traced back to drawings and sculptures left behind by ancient civilizations.
Where to meet online cybersex partners
Adult dating sites have also taken note of this trend and are adapting their services accordingly. Several sites have added categories and search filters to help users find cybersex partners, while others have added video chat rooms as a new feature for adult patrons. The world’s largest adult dating site (AdultFriendFinder) is now host to the web’s largest adult video chat room. We recently tried out this new feature and were surprised to find well over 1,000 men, women and couples getting naked in front of their home webcams. Now be warned, these aren’t beautiful cam girls with gorgeous bodies. These are just regular people like you and me, and they come in all shapes and sizes. The quality of the webcam feeds varied greatly depending on both the camera being used and the speed of the users internet connection. Nevertheless, it’s lots of fun to be a fly on the wall and watch so many people have sex in real time. It’s also fun for exhibitionists who love to be watched in an anonymous manner, assuming you don’t show your face on cam.
The two other sites I should mention are SexPlayCam.com and CamPlayFriends.com. These are both adult dating sites, but they specifically cater to men, women and couples seeking cybersex. We visited both these sites and found a rather large and enthusiastic user base of webcam sex enthusiasts. The nice thing about online sex is that your potential partners can be located anywhere in the world, therefore your chances of hooking up for a Skype or Google Hangouts video chat are much better than they are with traditional dating sites. Your simply fishing in a much bigger pond.
How to craft the perfect cybersex profile
So now that you know where to go to meet cybersex contacts, it’s important to learn how to approach potential partners and engage them in a proper fashion. These are not cam girl sites where you can instantly jump into the action. At their core these are just like dating sites, therefore you need to take some time and nurture your new relationships before jumping into the cam or voice sex portion of the arrangement. And more often than not, the first step is creating a cybersex dating profile that will connect with women.
Start off by asking yourself what you are seeking in a cybersex relationship. Are there any specific physical attributes you are looking for? Are you looking for someone in a specific age group? Are you interested in someone who shares an interest in a fetish you may have? Are you seeking a short or long term cybersex relationship? Are you only into phone sex, or is webcam sex of interest as well? These are all important questions to consider before crafting your profile. You might also want to consider privacy issues? Do you intend to show your face on cam, and do you expect your prospective partners to show their faces? Are you comfortable with using masks to conceal your identity. When it comes to cybersex, there are many options to consider.
Like most things in life, I consider honesty to be the best policy. Be straightforward with yourself and others in terms of what you’re seeking. In the end, this will allow you to focus your attention on potential partners with whom you share a certain level of compatibility. Why waste time building a relationship with someone who’s seeking something completely different than you are?
Here’s a sample profile I crafted to meet women for casual webcam chats:
Thanks for taking time to read my profile. My name is John and I’m an employed professional from the east coast. I’m an open minded 35 year old caucasian male seeking to meet a female with similar attributes. I stand 5’11” and weight 180 pounds. I have short brown hair, am well groomed with an average body type. I’m seeking to meet a woman for initial text chats, with the possibility of more if the chemistry is right. I’m open to both voice and video chats using either Skype or Google Hangouts as long as confidentiality is maintained on both ends. If you’re seeking an intelligent, open minded cybersex partner who wants to start things off slowly and get to know each other, I might be the right guy for you. Send me a message and let’s see where things lead.
This is a profile that will get results. Yes, women on cybersex dating sites are seeking adventure, but just like real life, they want to get to know a person before moving on to cybersex interaction. The first thing most people look for when guageing a potential partner is demographic information. Age, employment and physical attributes are top of mind. The next thing they look for is intent. They want to know what you’re about and what you’re looking for. And finally, they will want to get a sense of what your personality is like. When they read your profile, women need to feel comfortable with how your words come across.
Once you make contact, go slow and let her set the pace of the relationship. Exchange a few emails, then migrate to real time text chat. You can do this on most adult dating sites, or you can use an external chat client such as Skype or Google Hangouts. I recommend moving to an external chat client as it gets you one step closer to both voice and webcam chat should you hit it off with your new aquaintance. Remember, go slow, build trust and suggest a voice chat before engaging in cam to cam. Both Skype and Google Hangouts offer great tools for confidential communication in both voice and video formats. And best of all, you can do it hands free by using a USB headset.
Cybersex safety tips
Now the big question many people ask is “should I show my face on cam, or wear a mask?”. The short answer is, never do anything you’re not comfortable with. Set your privacy threashold and stick to it. Cybersex is all about fantasy, therefore wearing a mask and lingerie might actually add to the experience. Be experimental, use wigs, glasses or whatever floats your boat. But always respect your own limits and those of others. Webcam sex is so much better when it’s consensual and everyone is having fun.
Another question I get a lot is “can people find me by tracing my IP address?”. This is technically possible, but not likely. It would be fairly easy to locate your ISP country and maybe even your city of residence, but beyond that, the person would probably need in depth access with your internet service provider. If you’re the paranoid type, you can use a proxy service such as HideMyAss.com to change your IP address. In fact, you can even make it appear like you’re from another country using that service. It’s very easy to install and one click hides all your online activity. Great for surfing porn.
I hope this article helps you in your quest to find the perfect cybersex partner. After all, cybersex is safe sex, and you won’t end up standing in line at the local STD clinic. So surf on over to AdultFriendFinder.com, SexPlayCam.com or CamPlayFriends.com and start connecting with other open minded adults!