Deciphering the SugarDaddy – SugarBaby relationship

On the surface, it seems tempting to equate the SugarDaddy / SugarBaby relationship to that of a John acquiring the services of an escort. A wealthy, older gentleman seeking sex with a younger woman in exchange for money. Those who accept this superficial anecdote are failing to grasp the true nature of such arrangements.

Before we get to the topic at hand, I should state that some SugarDaddies and their SugarBabies do engage in an indirect sex for money relationship. But I think that those purely motivated by either sex or money represent a minority of people involved in such relationships. If you look deeper into the dynamics at play, a much different picture emerges.

For starters, so-called SugarDaddies are now defined primarily by their wealth as opposed to their age. Previous generations built wealth over time, but that’s not necessarily true today. A new generation of younger, technology savvy professionals has emerged and their lifestyle is much different than that of their older peers. They tend to work much longer hours than most and are compensated handsomely for both their talent and dedication. They are in effect, the nouveau-riche. But the success they experience with their career often leaves them with little, if any time for dating, much less a true relationship. Work-life balance isn’t yet a priority for this demographic. They are much more focused on their career and earnings.


This is why some young professionals might be attracted to dating sites such as Seeking Arrangements. They have very little time for dating, so they want to make good use of what brief moments of leisure they can enjoy. And they also have enough disposable income to enjoy the finer things in life and don’t mind spoiling the women they date. They aren’t interested in long-term relationships or spending time courting prospective dates at a bar. They want to meet refined, attractive women whose company they can enjoy without the expectation of a long-term commitment. They also want, above all else, short-term companionship. Can such an arrangements lead to sexual encounters? Of course, they can – just as any dating experience can. But more often than not, sex isn’t the main motivation. Companionship is.

From a woman’s point of view, things can get somewhat complicated. On the one hand, the lure of dating a successful, wealthy gentleman is sure to conjure aspirations for a long-term relationship. On the other hand, it’s important to stay grounded and realize that you’re there for a good time, not a long time. This is a short-term arrangement of convenience for both of you. He’s not a John. You’re not a sex worker. You’re two people who want to date, have fun, and enjoy the fruits of your respective successes – without the expectation (or complications) of a long-term commitment. So enjoy being spoiled and having fun – but don’t lose sight of the fact that, in the end, you’re both in it for very specific reasons and boundaries will need to be respected.

In conclusion, a SugarDaddy / SugarBaby relationship can take many forms. Never assume that it’s a straight money for sex exchange of services. It’s more often than not, much more than that. We live in a society where dating and companionship can take many forms. In today’s fast-paced world, where dating has been reduced to flicking through random dating profiles on services such as Tinder, it’s nice to know that a man can still take a woman on a date and spoil her – with or without expectations of a long term relationship.

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